Matt Morris WorldVentures Presentation 2013

http://www.youtube.com/v/wnISG4wbd0A?version=3&autohide=1&autoplay=1&autohide=1&feature=share&showinfo=1&attribution_tag=0Aw8B4K2szfJKWBCtiEZug

Two many things to do.

Hi everyone and welcome again to Netnewbe. Today I want to talk about having two many things to do and how to set priorities so that we or you can get things done. some times it is not procrastination it is just having our plates full. we have our families which are very important, we have our jobs and the assortment of other things like church, our relationships with loved ones that all these things some time conflict with our time. I wrote in another post that I wish at times that I had more hands and more me to do all the things that I want to do and the things that I must get done. but some days I find that I can not get it all done in the one day.

Some project also that more time than you thought it would take. so to get it done well and to your satisfaction we have to spend more time. so that push the time frame out of sync. well I am going to give you some little pointers to help.

First of all let us look at where we do our work. What does it look like is it cluttered  with stacks of papers supplies toys or books. Its best to get that area organized. this may seem harmless however it register in your peripheral vision and it competes for your attention. clutter breeds confusion. have you every noticed that when you have a lot going on and in your mind your room or house or car and your desk are a mess. Well if you put it in order you may find that you are more peaceful and can think and get a few things done.  These things will not be in your way or on your mind. Clarity is power.
 Also clarify all instructions so that you don't waste time with trial and error and then have to go back and do it all over again once you understand the instructions.

 Have everything that you are going to use with that one project at hand. Not in a pile with all the other things you still have to do. Furthermore make a list; I guess I should have listed the list making first. So that you have a plan of action first. Even the cleaning up of clutter have that on your list to do first. smile. Once you have finished the list and some of the things on the list, it makes you feel that you have accomplished  a lot or gotten thou some of your short term goals.

I know when I feel out of sync with the things to do, I have gotten away from making my list  first and checking off the projects I have finished. it is sort of empowering to know that you are getting things done and you have not wasted time and your energy.

Ok now it is time to prioritize your priorities! what is more important or must be done before you can get to the next thing. all things to do are not created equally. so number them. priority 1 then two and the next one it is neither important nor urgent. if things have a deadline then it should go first! So think of it like this the first one is important and urgent and needs to get done now , the  is important but not urgent.  and the last not important but a step or it is with in the process.

 the final note or tip is get rid of any distractions. I know that when I sit down to write it is best that no one else is in the background watching tv or playing music or chatting with me about something I tell all that I am working and I need no distractions please. now that is me however you may find that you like music on. Then do that if it helps you. with me I can't have the kids in the same room with me. I have to close the door and let them know I am working. some other things that may be a distraction are email alerts, or the phone or other dropping by. if you work from home set times and that you will be working so that all know that you don't want to be interrupted during these hours.  and you yourself must stick with these times as well. and not give in when other come with this or that. You be assertive with your self and not give in as well. smile I hope this has help a little with the two many things to do that at times we find our self stressing over. with a little set up time in the beginning  we help our selfs do better with getting things done on time and with a a clearer mindset.

How time is wasted!

 Hi everyone and welcome to NetNewbe. I have been a way for a while but I have had things on my mind and much to do on my plate.  Do you know that if you have mental unrest you will not get things done.   This is why it is so very important to keep a good frame of mind and to keep the stress levels in your personal life down. Well this is how time is wasted. The worry and fear of what is going on in your life. So lets use me as an example. So what is going on in my life that has me so busy that I could not come and do what I like and want to do.
My Current job. Ever since I have been under this new manager  he has done nothing but thrown rocks in our departments moral. Does he not understand that you can not micro manage a group of people that have done very well with out that kind of management. My theory  is if it is not broke then why mess with it. We have had two other managers and they understood this and work with us.  We have  had good production and not many errors. Now the level of errors has jumped and the feeling of stress is very evident. I am an administrative assistant so why am I going to classes on how to put handcuffs on kids that we work with. I should be taking classes for excel or something that relates to my job title. Strange beans indeed.



But the point to my story is this, with that kind of stuff going on in my personal or professional life it has caused me to think that I should leave that job. So this has added job search to my list of things to do.  Then filing suits for other negative treatment.  It totally reduced my production of what I wanted to do online and with this blog and my other blog. So I have done only the bear basic things. you see  my mind has only had the desire to do work around the house and tend to the needs of my job. With the additional training days and  time schedule changes my system and my inter clock are all in a whack!!.

I believe that in an earlier post I told you about working on a website that is attached to this blog. I am new at building a website so that takes time and study and  more work to figure out how to add things to it, and how it looks and functions.  Right now it is live and up but I still have so much work to do with it. It is in no way how I want it to be. But it is up! So if you will; bear with me with the building of the website. The time I spend worrying about weather I have a job next week to continue the work I need to do on the blogs, the website, product creation and marketing  is a little overwhelming at this time in my life. Remember now, I also work as a direct sales person with two companies I like and love promoting and I have a family, house and home to tend to.

 My theory here is you never put all your eggs in one basket with all that I trying to do. So I had to slow down with some things and it is how I come to how my time and my thoughts have  been wasted.
 For both blogs I like to create my own images. This has also suffered due to this situation at my current job. I do beat myself up for not working online with the things I put forth for myself. However I also know and understand that I must give my self a break and not beat up on self too much.  I am a positive person and when things happen in the negative I have to get myself back into gear and handle disappointments and cheer my self up. Create the positive in my life once again. It is a form of regrouping and settling down and do motivating activities that trigger my desires and empower me to work more on my own creations and perspective of self.




In other words get happy again. Smile.  Some of the things I have to do are these. 1. Stop waiting until!  that is why the site is active, 2. Stop trying to be perfect. I am only human and things happen that are out of my control. and the site does not have to be perfect. I am also changing my goal of how often I will write on both blogs to twice a month until this 9 to 5 mess is a little more under control. 3. Read more positive things. 4. I can not sit with co workers and chat about what the heck is going on at work. that also is not productive and it does not make one feel good. After all it is a job that I have no control of. That is so why I started wanting to work for self.

So I must embrace this opportunity and that internal grace. So today this post in a way has been my journal to vent and it has made me feel better so it is therapeutic. I have gotten that off my chest.
 I will also say this as well. I have spent time out side a lot during this time. It seems to me that it also has help me  and if you are going though any thing like this or you just have situations in your life.

Give your self a break, and get out and do things in the fresh air and don't constantly talk about your problems but, talk about thinks that are positive, Meditating is also good  for clearing your mind. It  can help you see things in a new light.

I always think about helping others and to put your mind on other people is another  good way to help yourself by helping others.  I do think that from what I write  this can help others see that giving yourself permission to be befuddled at times is human.  After all that is what we are. Things happen and there will always be something that falls in the road on your way. Stop deal with it and move on.

 Brainstorm and de-stress in ways that are pleasurable  and that make you feel good about yourself for yourself. See the solutions in a positive light will help you.
 I also find that daydreaming is a big help too. Because it is with those ideas that are created and envisioned  with in the day dream  which, can motivate and encourage you to cheer up and identify what really is important to you and set you back on the road of your intentions. It resurrect and engages your emotions.
 Our thoughts and emotions affect our motivation. This is the level at which you are able to find a reason to act. Also to  think  rational;  that someone else job is not yours to take any ownership in. Which leads us to feel possessive about our jobs and the duties we preform. This is what I also had to come to see that I was doing. You can not really do that with a job that is not yours. Sure you can be proud of the work you do as I have.  However don't get the two confused.
 Here is a little quote that illiterates what I mean with changing your mindset to one that is more positive and more rational when thinking of being motivated and developing emotional intelligence. To live learn and grow by being aware of our thinking and handling our emotions. I will talk on that subject the emotional intelligence in another post.

Optimism is essential to achievement and it is also the foundation of courage and true progress. Nicholas Murray Butler.


Have a great week. See you soon!

You Were Born Rich - Bob Proctor 1-st part.mp4

This video is all about changing the way you think. Any thing you want to do starts in your brain. you are born rich. which means you have the potential to do any thing you want. Build the habit to think positive. With every thing negative think of a counter thought that is positive. So that you reprogram yourself and your thoughts to the positive. To do any thing in life you have to have the key points. order, movement, growth, and commitment.  The video that was displayed on youtube is no longer available. but if you can find it I would say to watch it .  He has some wonderful thoughts to share. I am sorry it is not available to the public. To share the thoughts and wisdom of his words. But the point still remains. you are what you think you are.

This is where the idea and the saying and the book Think and grow rich.

Rich can be any thing in the world, from a good relationship with family and friends, building a business, richness in thought and presents. or financial.
Get out of your comfort zone.  Your comfort zone  is complacency, there is no movement or growth in complacency. There is only excuses and no growth and no movement. To start something is movement and growth. Due to the path that the movement takes you on; you learn about the path and on the path you are exposed to many things. But this journey starts with your thoughts of can do and no can't do. negative attracts the negative. Positive attracts the positive!

This video is long but there are some great stories and wonderful concepts, and plans of action for mental growth and  personal change. So sit back with refreshments and take notes and really think of what Bob Proctor is saying. How to develop  your conscious mind set about the terms the concepts given in this video.

I just finished a class about emotional intelligence. This is where I learned about  limbic system  that simply is the subconscious mind. It is where your beliefs and habits are stored and it controls your feelings. The cortex is the place in your mind that responds to what the limbic system feels from the habits and beliefs you have learned and taken in over the years.

 This video is giving your subconscious mind new beliefs and habits  so that your outer response changes. To the concept of money and success, and growth and the self destructive thoughts that will not let you start something new or take that step to a new or different path in life. To change irrational thinking and to manage your emotions. So that you can move forward and understand how rational self talk helps and grows a more positive self control and perspective.

If you keep doing what you always have done you get the same result.

You know I love quotes so here is one that I will leave you with to think and grow with.

" No one can make you feel inferior without your consent" - Eleanor Roosevelt

Just a little note

Hi everyone, this is just  short note,. as I told you before I write two blogs one here and the other one is converscity at wordpress. there I tell about all the different ways to work online. now that is not a new subject. However, to me it is part journal and a journey that I am in. and there I tell some of the steps I take as one to remember my steps and to help others do the same with one or two of the online work.

Now I know everyone needs a website. So do I. and one of the ways to work online is to produce and sell things and to give advice and to help others. Here on this blog I give you inspiration, and motivation to help you keep going for the moon and doing your best and to never give up on your dreams and your intents of being a great sales person. Or going out and making it happen in what ever field that you are in or trying to do.

 Up above is a look out side my window in my kitchen. I like my view it sure makes me happy and to start the day off with a view like that it sure does help me a lot. And that is a view that I created. Did you know I love to garden. well yes I do. and the tress and all the plants out side that window and the little plants inside I grow. So that is also why that is a happy view for myself. I would also encourage  each one of you to make a happy spot for your self . something or some place that you can sit in the morning and get your day started. get your thought in order and plan your day. Say thanks and be truly grateful for life and a new day to do what you do.  Starting your day off on the right track is very important for your mind and body and your heart. with me it starts off with that view and a big cup of coffee.

Finally, I think I told you that I am turning this blog into a website. I have never built a website so right now I am going though growing pains with it. I tell about that on converscity.  So if you want you can some time take a trip over there and see the details that I explain there. As with this blog it is a slow blog I do not blog each and everyday and sometimes a week can go by. I have a lot on my plate. But I am up for the challenge. If all goes right with my plans, wishes and goals I hope to not work the 10 am to 6pm job that I have and replace it with doing this and some of the other projects I have and I work on. So I hope you understand that since these are my goals it does take time to get them started. but the first and the most important step is to take that step. and that is sure what I am doing. I hope you do too.

You learn so much! about your self and the world and other people and you get to help others. I am not Mother Teresa. I am not going to save anyone with what I am doing but I hope to add value to you with encouragement and the will to get the things done that I or you set your mind to do.


So I will leave you with one of her Quotes ...

We ourselves feel that what we are doing is just a drop in the ocean. but the ocean would be less because of that missing drop. Mother Teresa

Smile have a great week!! Sue

What is it with you?

 Welcome back to Netnewb. I have a question for you and that is what is it with you. I am in the process of constantly  keeping myself pumped up with good thoughts and doing good things with in my life. In this world there are so many things that come at you all at once sometimes. With me it is my mac, and my job that 9 to 5 thing that I depend on to fund the things I want to do online and in other area in my life. I understand the concept of patience. and I understand that time is in the essence. so with these thoughts I can only say that I am being very patient  and you must too. yes I want to step fast I want to run and I want to go get it done.

 But some times we want things but are not willing to work hard for them. It takes time and the presence to keep on doing what others may not do. you must keep the faith with in you and about what you are doing. There is a saying that goes like this. Who ever told you that life was going to be a party or a rose garden. Smelling nice all the time and fun fun fun.

No life is just not like that. And I think it is a good thing that it is not like that. for most things that are worth anything you must work for it. and learn a few things about the world and your self and other people of the world. you can do it have patience with your self and the process of learning how to change you thoughts of this will not work or you are not good enough. you can believe in you. the power of a positive attitude most times is something that you learn. for every negative thought  throw in a positive one and soon the positive will out way the negative thoughts.

 I have set backs everyday or some days I was just in a car accident and I am thankful I am OK. but it set my little financial world back some more. but it is OK. I am still here trying to work on two blogs and to build this website that I have attached to this blog. and I am building a collection of photos to use for all my work on both blogs, I also go to seminars to learn and grow that way as well. I am moving and I have faith and the desire to grow. I hope you do too.

 Find things that will inspire you each and every day. I have two that come to my cell phone. you have to eat everyday to stay strong and to build a good foundation. Well silly you have to do the same thing with your motivation. You have to feed on that also everyday!!  I hope I have helped you with good things that you need to hear. heck I write them for my self as well. I have notes in my car and I read what I write and I do it here as well. this in a way is my journal  of the positive. building your business is so rewarding. keep at it everyday!! and educate yourself with books and other people who think the positive.

I love quotes I am sure you have heard that from me in the past posting so with closing here today  I will leave you with this one.


No matter what mistakes you have made--- no matter how you've messed things up---you can still make a new beginning. The person who fully realizes this suffers less from the shock and pain of failure and sooner gets off to a new beginning. by Norman Vincent Peale


Say good things to self, but never lie to self, and don't make excuse! And keep your eye on the prize! your inter wealth is worth it. Because you are worth it. Smile have a great week everyone.

Memorial day thanks

Hi and thanks again for coming to the site. it is all in the process and I am thankful that I was able to share memorial day with family and friends new and old. it was a great weekend for me sure I had to cook a ton of food for everyone but that was part of the joy of giving and show all that came how glad we were to share food and memories of old times and some of the people who have past that are only there in spirit with us. but though our memories they live on in our hearts and our soul and in our lives.
 this is a short post. In most case I would say I am sorry for being short. But the night is long and I have had a lot on my plate to do this weekend. Cooking for two days!! You do know that it is in these times of sharing that we renew ourselves and our love for each other and it helps you have a very positive attitude for all the things that you do in your life.

You must keep on point with your plans but you must plan occasions like this as well. No shop talk just the joy of being with friends and family. Life must be lived. Now you can mention some of the things that you do and what you are involved in. Most sales guru  will tell you to always to think of building but it is with just friendly conversation that you can let others know what you are doing. and you can say that you will tell them about it some other time.

Now if they show an interest in know now they persist then be my guest and go ahead and tell and show them. But I will say just have fun and just make a date for another time to go into the subject. you have to know when to say what and when. you build relationships in a positive manner first. and you build trust with the common ground things you can bring up and talk about. it is better for them to want you to talk to them about it. the anticipation grows in this way. it is now in your court. Be positive and not in a rush to give all your information out. you also have to see if they are what you are looking for. for you don't want just any one. and you don't want to spoil a lead that can be grown over time and you can brand your self as an authority  and create strength and momentum. I would say keep it light at the festive party and let all interested parties schedules for another day where you are in more control of the environment and the momentum to share.
You can even tell them that you are planing an party to share  the good news of your business with them. and then plan a party!  do you know that there have been more business deals done on the golf course. mixing pleasure with business is big business. But with each it is always or most time the promise together later for the real presentation or the talk of what you have to offer. doing things fun helps to build your worth and a positive attitude toward you from others. So have fun and laugh and make plans for another meeting.  Have a bright day!!  and thanks for coming to netnewbe!