Thursday, January 3, 2013

The New year is upon us!!

 Hi every one!
Well I see that we are all still here and doing fine or OK!  Now the New year is upon us. I like it when these predictions do not pan out it reminds me that we can let our fears control our thoughts and are actions. I bet on that day that the world was to end there were some folks out there that did not get a thing done. Worrying about what was going to happen!! So now your whole day was wasted and  the fear and all the anxiety was to no avail. I think sometimes when we let fear take a hold on us we are in a way letting our minds get lose and have a fear party with in us.

I think we all want change and can deal with it. But we never want to admit to wanting that change to come. We do not know what that change will bring.  We want to hold on to what we know the best and that is not embracing any thing new.
I think some of us lost something from when we were children. Children do not fear stuff they are ready for the new!! They say OK lets go I want to do this and I want to jump over the moon and dance with the man up there. LOL. Now would that be funny if that could really happen. I think that while we were eagerly learning we were also being told no, you can't do this and you can't ever fly to the moon and dance with the guy up there you will get hurt, and the unspeakable will happen.

What is the unspeakable? The negative, that kind of mental conditioning is planted there and it grows as we do, and it is reinforced time and time again.  The news, other mentors, friends and family. Stories of winners and losers and it is reinforced by reactions of other. This stigma makes us afraid to try something new and different and out of our comfort zone as all ways being bad. We must stay with in the box, we have to control our desires to want and do more and to be  a little different from the next guy, if it means that we will lose something. Why do we always look at the negative? If we want change then we have to change the way we were conditioned. I and you must think of only the positive. and retrain our minds and our reactions to the positive.

The law of attraction does this and will help us move away from the fear of the bad and the unknown. to think positive is a winners attitude. you can see all the wonderful possibilities. You no longer get hurt, you survive!  You grow within that understanding that you have opened so many doors to so many possibilities.
But we must train ourselves. and that we do with surrounding ourselves with all things positive. The people you deal with the things that you read and view each and every day, the words that come out of your mouth and what and how you think. All that will change over time. This is the first step to change the attitude.

Change the attitude change the man or the women. So for the newbie(newb) that comes to work online first you have to change your attitude.  You will have to understand that this will take a little time, but the great thing is that you can do that while you are working on what you want to do.

 I enjoy reading a blog by Randy Gage. he started with all odds against him. but when he changed his thinking it changed him. check out his blog at  https://www.randygage.com He is what you call a prosperity thinker, and you can get some good ideas and reinforcement from his blog. He also has guest writers as well and they help provide additional support to this way of thinking and being. Randy Gages book is Risky is the New safe.

Another person I want to introduced you to is a gentlemen by the name of Robin Sharma he also has a blog and a podcast and he is also on YouTube, he as also written a few books the one I read is Extraordinary  Leadership. His site is http://www.robinsharma.com. He helps others become leaders. Robin Sharma  is also a coach. You need to really view his blog and the podcast.

 Sorry folks but this is a long blog so please bear with me.

So now is the time that I ask you to help me help you. I want to get to the subjects that interest you.

So I would like you to voice your request of the topic of interest for you all. For example, I know some have come online looking to work online. Well there are Blogs, then there is Affiliate marketing,Niche marketing, then if you have a product to sell you need to know how to market online.  If you have a direct sales home business (MLM) you need to learn how to get leads. And finally if you are a writer, you maybe interested in blogging or freelance writing for others. there is so much to do online.

 So if you would be so kind and let me know. If you like this blog please let others know about it as well. Thanks and have a great Day.

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